The Biggest Three Mistakes Women Make With Men

The TRIO of mistakes women make with men revolves around hiding, pretending, not noticing, or even faking true beliefs, thoughts, and feelings. These go along with acting out all that a man desires or that you possess character unique enough in adapting or changing for the purpose of avoiding or potential pain or conflicts arising from natural differences.

People are certainly different from one another (aside from having flesh and blood plus sharing in common needs like shelter, food, and clothing, plus finally -- self-actualization achievement. Ironically, trying too much to please someone (or seemingly doing yourself a favor by avoiding painful truth) constitutes counter-productivity to almost all progress toward self-actualization.

Ultimately, you still find that long-lasting, loving relationships maintain elements of freedom... including encouragement of thought, liberty of speech, and limitless permission to engage one's desires, dreams, impulses, and motivations. Other aspects or versions of common mistakes women make with men include the nearly intentional failure to notice obvious signs preexisting in a potential partnership.

Truth tells us that human nature essentially does not automatically change as time passes. For instance, when a person adores brisk-walking or long-distance exercise, as time moves onward, maybe she or he might walk slightly slower, or even move much faster.


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However, despite such chosen intensities, leisure time availabilities, or even possessing the proper partner to share these precious moments, one basically ALWAYS looks anxiously forward to performing those brisk-walking or long-distance activities, and if they do not occur, will seriously miss them during these times.

Using the above as mere example, you may recognize that mates have inward preferences that become obviously apparent with mutual revelation of each others' true character... yet, some partners erroneously maintain habits of hiding, faking, pretending, and intentionally not-noticing what lies inside themselves or their companions. Perhaps one may even go so far as to attempt changing her or his action, feeling, or activity just to suit the other teammate.

Surely this often seems like truly "gallant" or wonderful behavior, yet, at its base a mistaken perception occurs -- that is, thinking these are the best or only ways to satisfy a partner. On the contrary, such pretending tends to deny both you and your intended lover your chances for creating / expressing / progressing with newly useful solutions that mutually maintain your bliss and harmony without ultimately forced "self-sacrifice."

When-relationships truly hold the good things of life, they erase the need for each mate to "win" nearly EVERY emotional gratification while their partners "give up" or "lose" valued expression or dignities. These types of wastefulness disappear when-relationships have balance and prosperity without undue pressure.

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For now, just realize that the first of three grave mistakes women make with men will cover lots of ground because, basically, it comprises an "umbrella" that houses nearly all other relationship errors.

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